sortofkindalikenaparanglovekita:
The horrible stages of monthly surprises.
This is what I am going through. I am at day two. AAAAAAGH
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wtf yung day six!! :)))
Via i call it LOVE. ♥
- STAGE 1:1-3 months = The Honeymoon Stage:
Everything seems perfect, both are happy and feeling “in love”. You share moments, dates, and just having fun with each other, sharing laughs and giggles. It’s like nothing could stop you. Your feelings are infinite, and for once you’re thinking ” This may work out.. ” and seems like nothing could go wrong. You spend hours getting ready before going out with this person.
- *If your relationship ended in this stage - Most likely, both rushed into the relationship to fast. Being together was all too sudden and just for the moment. When one starts noticing the flaws, one gets a choice to move foward, or back away. Being friends has a high percentage of working out, but nothing to stress over. Both maybe just need the time to know one another more.
- STAGE 2: 4-6 months = The Bumpy Road:
Things are going okay now. The relationship is calm and settled; both are still mostly happy. Had a couple arguments and disagreements here and there, nothing huge. Start to notice some of each other’s flaws and aspects of their personality not seen before, but still truely care for one another.
- *If your relationship ended in this stage - You truly cared about this person. You had the energy to fight for this person, yet, you feel as if something was lacking, something was missing , it doesn’t feel right, one isn’t happy. When one isn’t happy, one tends to walk away to seek their new happiness. Being friends is still a possibility.
- STAGE 3: 7-12 months = The Rocky Mountain:
You start to realize who your partner really is. A few more arguements may occur. Problems with jealously. Over protectiveness may rise. Other people may come in the picture. The “in love” momments start to decrease, but you feel as if, you’ve “fallin in love”. You tend to have this energy inside to strive and “make it work”, you feel more comfortable being around this person, feeling more of yourself.
- *If your relationship ends in this stage - You feel as if you’re hurt- depending on the circumstance. You were so sure that that person was “the one”. You were so SURE that he/she was different. But like a cancer, a problem that may have happened; a small issue, grew into something larger that took over what was made between two people. You still miss this person from time to time. You still remember the memories. Being friends may be difficult right away, but over time, you slowly mature up, and learn the reality of it.
- STAGE 4: 1 year or more = The Long Road:
- 1 2 3 4 5 years huh ? This person truly means something to you. You are “in love” with this person . He/She made a difference in your life. No one else knows you more than this person. You guys have been through the good, the bad, the ugly, and still strive to make it last.
- If your relationship ends at this stage - You feel heart broken; it’s tough. You can’t sleep, can’t eat, you miss him/her, you try to move on, you try meeting new people , but seems like nothing works. For whatever reason for the split, it must’ve been something important, or something must have been so wrong that it took over. Being “just friends” is impossible, because if you tried to be friends, you can’t think of them in any other way besides the one you once “loved” .
“What did I do wrong?”, you’ll probably ask yourself. What you don’t realize is that you can’t get instant answers to a question like that. Things end just because. It’s devastating and liberating at the same time. For a while, you’ll think of changing something about yourself, as if doing so…
hindi nya alam na kinukunan ko sya busyng busy kasi sa paggawa.
:) # sotouched so proud.
so here’s the story behind the above pics.
nasa sala kami ng mga friends ko, then i noticed that this guy is so busy doing something.. then i took a glance..
actually i was thinking that he’s doing something funny and i want to catch it & to have a proof ..
nung nakita nya kong sumisilip tinago nya. and sabi nya
“mamaya na, makikita mo rin naman to.. “
syempre para sakin walang pagkakaiba ang mamya na at ngayon kaya nangulit ako..
then i saw the second picture above, i pretend to text, whatever so that he can continue with what he is doing..
kahit hindi pa tapos yung ginagawa nya, natouched na ko.. sabi nya kasi
“para sayo to kaya wag ka magulo ha?..”
and then ayun, yung pangatlong picture yun yung time na pinakita na nya sakin..
<3
pinost ko to kasi, in the future i want to remember how well i was loved by this person. how well he took care of his words “maghihintay ako hanggang sa huli”.. for almost 3 years now.
how well i was appreciated by someone na kahit sa panaginip hindi ko inexpect, inassume o hiniling na mahalin ako pero he did without expecting anything in return.
how well he danced to my tantrums every now and then,
thank you for the effort, you are really appreciated.
thank you for the friendship - because indeed, i found a bestfriend figure in you.
thank you for always being there for me. i cannot promise the future because no one knows what lies ahead- all i can promise is this friendship that in time it might grow into something beautiful.
:)
sorry sa mga katarayan ko sayo, lalo na nung bagyuhan (story below this). pero kung sinabi mo naman agad kung bakit ka nalate eh di sana.. naging mabaet ako. hahaha! wala pang tumatapat dun.
BAGYUHAN..
so ayun, ito yung nagsuspend ng klase ng 4pm due to bad weather. baha kahit saan, #lalo na sa UST so i bought a pair of slippers for 80 pesos. then when i reached monumento.. grabe rumaragasa yung tubig natakot ako kasi tinatangay ako habang tumatawid ako so hindi ako tumuloy then he called. i told him na magpapalipas muna ko ng ulan at ragasa ng baha… tapos sasakay ng bus. sabi nya, hindi hintayin mo ko jan susunduin na kita.
5pm yung tawag na susunduin nya ko..
6pm.. wala parin
7pm.. wala parin..
8pm .. GRABE TALAGA WALA PARIN! nabadtrip na ko that time..
when he came he was wearing a jacket at may dalawang payong, hindi ko napansin na basa na sya that time (hanggang bewang..)
sabi ko :”sana hindi mo na lang sinabi na susunduin mo ko, para hindi na ko naghintay dito ng matagal.. sana nakauwi na ko.. ang lamig lamig kaya dito.. sana naisip mo yun..”
then he just smiled and took off his jacket and gave it to me..
“sorry na.. wag ka na magalit. o eto jacket para di ka na lamigin.”
dito ko na napansin na basa sya hanggang dibdib..
syempre ackward pero nagtanong ako..
“ano yan pawis?”
sabi nya : “hinde..”
“eh ano yan? bat ganyan?”
sabi nya : “baha kasi satin walang jeep..”
napahinto ako dito..
“kung walng jeep san ka sumakay?”
sabi nya : “wala. naglusong…”
“ha? adik ka ba? mula san?”
sabi nya: “mula letre hanggang dito. wala kasing bumabyahe na jeep, lahat umaatras paglagpas ng letre kasi nga hanggang bewang na yung baha eh nag alala na ko sayo kasi masama panahon siguradong mahihrapan kang umuwi, kaya nilusong ko na lang… kaya nga inabot ako ng siyam siyam. pasensya ka na napag intay kita. pero andito na naman ako. “
*shocked ako syempre*
“sorry.. tska sobrang salamat. naappreciate ko yung paglusong mo sobra. sorry ulit. peace na tayo. :) “
sobrang hiyang hiya ako nun sa kanya.. pero sobrang nagpasalamat din ako.
Sa mga malalandi, mang aagaw, bastos, pampam, at walang ginawa kundi siraan ang mga taong wala naman ginagawa sa kanila.
Eto kayo ;)
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